Some people believe that everything happens for a reason. I have had periods of doubt about that theory but I am inclined to believe that those people are more likely to be right than wrong on this point. While the answers as to why things happen may not come as quickly and clearly as we would like sometimes, that doesn’t mean they are not there. So when somebody is working their way through heartache, or even suffering from a broken heart, there might be a ready reason for that painful experience.
If God Keeps Letting Your Heart Get Broken, Maybe He Really Wants You To Leave It Open
If we can learn to leave our hearts open, it may expose them to hurt, but it also opens them to receive more love and joy than what is possible when closed. This is highly conceptual but the emotional intelligence and insights required to receive this message is within our grasp from the minute we can process love and loss.